Some who encounter Narcissists are preyed upon and become their victims. The damage can be devastating. Escaping their grasp can be extraordinarily painful and difficult. A destructive cycle of victimization can occur. See the Solutions tab for resources specifically aimed at helping victims become victors.
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The Website "Victims of Liars & Cheats" has been moved here given it's main theme of Narcissism.
Have you been seriously lied to, cheated on, betrayed, manipulated, abused?
By “seriously” we mean in ways that have seriously hurt you and damaged your life.
Are you struggling to understand what just happened to you, or is happening now?
And to cope with or recover from the experience?
Have you experienced the emotional abuse of a compulsive liar, a narcissist, a sociopath, a sexual addict?
Do others in your life not really understand your feelings, what’s happening to you, why you’re reacting as you are?
Are you in need of support to get your life back – your peace of mind, stable ground, good feelings about yourself and your future, a plan of action for your future?
I’m Mona Carrington and the experience I’ve been through includes all of these and more – to the point of absolute devastation.
But I’m still standing. And I’m hoping that my experience and know-how can help others find their way through whatever the experience has been for them – or for you.
This site is here to provide insights and resources to spare others pain … and to create empowerment.
Thank you for visiting and I hope you get great value from having found this Website.
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This Website is about “sharing the light”. No matter what you’ve experienced or been through, there can be light ahead … if you choose it.
My goal is to provide options, resources and real life experiences aimed at helping others avoid or recover from the damage caused by habitual liars and cheats.
While any lie or betrayal can be hurtful, my focus is on the pain and other damage caused by individuals who are “emotional abusers”, engaged in habitual behaviors that inflict serious harm on others. Individuals who are unusually self-centered … those not concerned with their impacts on others … those who will keep on victimizing while hiding or denying any wrong-doing … and those who prey on others as part of their longstanding psychological needs.
Some of these individuals may be classified as narcissists, compulsive liars, psychopathic liars, sexual addicts, sociopaths or other related terms.
Victims typically don’t know what’s happening (while it’s happening and sometimes after the fact). They may or may not even sense that something is wrong — until it’s too late (or, in fewer cases, never). My story is meant to help those who have encountered victimizers or who have worried that they’ve been deceived but aren’t quite sure. The lies and manipulation encountered may also involve infidelity, as in my case.
I should say up-front, my degrees are not in psychology, psychiatry or mental health counseling. They’re in business-related fields. And I’ve had years of professional experience in life coaching, both personal and business.
But what’s most important and valuable on the subject of this Website is my life experience as a victim.
My story is unusual by virtue of the extent and complexity of lies and cheating that I’ve encountered, and for other reasons too. What’s good about that for you is that you’ll have the chance to gain lots of insights into the psychology of liars and cheats, their behaviors, the impacts on others (beyond what you may realize) and options for freeing oneself from further harm and damage.
It’s true that we each have to do the work to find our own way through such experiences. At the same time, having others who we trust … and resources that we can rely on … can make all the difference.
I welcome being such a resource. And you have my pledge of Truth, Honor, Sincerity and Commitment that anything I say through this site (and elsewhere) will be aimed at supporting a better life for those who entrust me as part of their “support system”.
Thank you for visiting this site and read on for more details.
So many different impacts can occur in a person’s life as the result of liars and cheaters.
Some examples are here:
What have the impacts been on you and your life … or the life of someone else who you know and care about?
Identifying the impacts is an important part of garnering the strength and commitment needed for recovery.
To contact Mona please use the following form. ALSO scroll to the end to sign-in for periodic announcements when new books and reports are released on topics you care about plus receive a free copy of one of Mona’s books just for signing in