Have you been seriously lied to, cheated on, betrayed, manipulated, abused?
By “seriously” I mean in ways that have seriously hurt you and damaged your life.
Are you struggling to understand what just happened to you, or is happening now?
And to cope with or recover from the experience?
Have you experienced the emotional abuse of a compulsive liar, a narcissist, a sociopath, a sexual addict?
Do others in your life not really understand your feelings, what’s happening to you, why you’re reacting as you are?
Are you in need of support to get your life back – your peace of mind, stable ground, good feelings about yourself and your future, a plan of action for your future?
I’m Mona Carrington and the experience I’ve been through includes all of these and more – to the point of absolute devastation.
But I’m still standing. And I’m hoping that my experience and know-how can help others find their way through whatever the experience has been for them – or for you.
I’m creating this new Website to provide insights and resources to spare others pain … and to create empowerment.
An initial Blog appears now and others plus helpful resources are at:
https://victimsofliarsandcheats.com/ and the Facebook page by that name.
Thank you for visiting and I hope you get great value from having found this Website.
“I haven’t got time for the pain, haven’t got room for the pain, haven’t the need for the pain.” Words originated and sung so many years ago by musical artist, Carly Simon. Within them lies great wisdom and hope for the future.
Being traumatized and emotionally suffering feels like a matter beyond our control, one of no choice. Something awful happened to us and we are experiencing intense pain as a result.
But what if we have the opportunity and the power to walk away from the pain? What if WE don’t have time for the pain?
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” … we were unexpectedly pummeled by hurricane rains and winds that caused major destruction. Buildings were leveled, huge trees were uprooted, utility lines downed, people were displaced from their homes and places of work, the environment and wildlife suffered. With so much damage done, the recovery process will be slow and, in some ways, not even possible.
“Which reminds me of my own life. Without warning and with massively destructive force, a Narcissist ripped my life apart. His force was accompanied by a unique form of tornadoes, hail, high winds and severe flooding, all at Category 5 level. Unfortunately, like the impacts of so many shocking incidents this year hurricanes, floods, fires and other severe weather, my life will never be the same. …” CLICK to continue
In the hit TV series Designated Survivor Tom Kirkman serves as President of the United States, a role that he did not ask for, didn’t anticipate ever having and didn’t want.
The designated survivor is an individual identified by the President to stay off-site when major political figures are convening in the unlikely event that a catastrophe would happen and the others would all be killed or incapacitated. In such case this individual would assume the presidency.
The unexpected happened and Kirkman was suddenly in this role.
On top of these extreme circumstances … CLICK for more on being a survivor
My therapist has said that I’m an “easy mark for a Narcissist”. That after I again expressed compassion for the man who nearly destroyed me.
He has Narcissistic Personality Disorder. But, while the therapist respects that I care about people and want to help others in need, she understands that Narcissists prey on the empathic, compassionate and caring.
She believes that, instead of compassion, I have to develop anger at him for what he did to me in order to escape his grip. Kind of like the stages of grief.
I’m trained in psychology too and I know a great deal about Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Based on my own experience, and who I am as a person, I have a different perspective.
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Powerful book by Mona Carrington. Includes a step-by-step process for emotional and other recovery by victims. Available in e-book and print book form ($2.99 and $5.99) HERE.
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